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Living with HIV personal stories and experiences

Learning that you are HIV-positive can be one of the most difficult experiences you go through in life. You may feel scared, sad or even angry – this is OK, and a completely natural part of coping with something that can be life changing.

But remember, HIV doesn’t have to stop you living a long, happy and fulfilling life. With the right treatment and support, it is possible to live as long as the average person.

There are a lot of misconceptions about what it means to be living with HIV. Ultimately, everyone’s lives are different – how you cope with your diagnosis and how you move forward will be unique.

Read these stories about some people’s experiences of being diagnosed with and living with HIV.

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Next full review: 
30 June 2019
Image of young Asian man in hoodie
"I was ashamed to be open about my condition due to fear of embarrassment and humiliation."
Picture of a smiling mum and baby
“The tester was so amazing… telling me he'd known people living with HIV for 25+ years. I latched on to those words.”
Ricardo looking thoughtful
"Forgiving myself was the first step to starting treatment, but it was still the hardest decision for me to make."
White man looking pensive
“I have learnt a lot about myself since my diagnosis and how I deal with things; I have become more headstrong.”
“I am still very quiet about my status to my friends. But otherwise, I don’t let my HIV affect me in any way. I am a normal teen."
“I still go in for my routine therapy every two months but that’s the only thing that has really changed in my life.”
“My point to this is find some sort of positive support from the time you find out until the time you can rely on yourself.”
“I tested HIV positive in August 2012, when I wanted to join the Nigerian Army… I was dumbfounded.”
"I’m happy with the love and support from my friends and family. There is always a life after an HIV-positive diagnosis."
Handsome young african man
"The day that I disclosed to my brother was through text message, because I didn't have the strength to face him.”
Thinking African lady
"I speak about it… it’s how I’ve managed all these years and lived a normal life”
Portrait of a mature man
"I gave up my bad habits and started having my family in my life more than ever before.”
Young African woman
"Do not be scared… You can live a healthy life if you adhere to your medication – I have never fallen sick since then.”
A woman looking pensive
“During my first year of work, the organisation and I faced discriminatory remarks because they employed a drug user to work.”
young Indonesian man looks to camera
“The hospital I was about to start working at refused to hire me after I disclosed my HIV status."
young women in a hat stands on a bridge
“I felt that if I told someone that I was positive, they would judge me and look at me differently”
Man smiles at camera
“When I told him my status I thought he would run for the hills, but to my surprise he told me he didn't care.”
smiling man arms crossed by a van
“I think if I had kept it a secret, it would have played on my mind more and probably made me quite depressed. “

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Last updated:
08 May 2017
Next full review:
30 June 2019