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i am a 25 year old gay man living in South Africa. I will not come out 2 anyone. I have been called gay, fag, stabane, sophy, caroline, the list is endless, 4 as long as i can remember. So i believe that most people know who i am.
I believe i am completely normal in my sexual feelings 4 other men.
I have religious friends who believe i am going 2 hell because i am a Lady Gaga fan. I don't care what they think about gay people. I keep them around because the are funny and i respect their honesty in religion. They keep me around because i am charitable. Symbiosis.
Most gay men i have met are feminine n i am not attracted 2 them. I am into the smelly type of men.
I am happy with who i am. I have met people who hate n have no respect 4 gay men. I've also met people who treated me with respect. U do not have 2 defend ur gayness 2 anyone.
The sad part of my story is that i have friends and family but i am still lonely because i respect that they are homophobic and religious so i can't say things like, '' Wow! I also think that guy is hot.''
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