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I am 16 years old nearly 17 and I lost my virginity to my current boyfriend (we had been going out for 4 months) about 1 month ago, he didn't pressure me at all, he had mentioned it but in a sensitive way and he told me that he loved me and wanted to make love with me. So while we were making out on my bed (home alone) I stopped him and got out a condom, that I had bought for when the time felt right. He just looked at me asked me if I was sure ... I said yes I want to .. he smiled then we made sure that the condom was placed properly, then I told him if I said stop to stop. It was quite a stingy pain when he first entered me, I told him to stay still and let me adjust as he had quite a large 'little friend', it took him about 2 minutes to enter me fully, then the pain went away and it was amazing. After, we finished I didn't regret a thing, it brought us closer in our relationship and I loved it because at that moment I felt deeply connected to a boy that I know I love and I want to stay with forever. I'm glad I lost my virginity to him. We have had sex 3 times in total over about 5 weeks. Just remember, sex is about feeling deeply bonded with someone you love and have been with for a while, if you don't want sex don't be pressured, luckily my boyfriend was prepared to wait for me to be ready