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My wife and I were both virgins when we met in 1980. We'd been seeing one another for 2 and a half years before we married. Apart from kissing each other we hadn't been intimate in any way.

Karen told me that wanted to lose her virginity to me on our wedding night and, hard, (!) as it was for me, I respected that. During the time we spent together in our courtship we talked and learned about each other and our first time, making love together was, well, brilliant. Yes, there was a lot of fumbling about at first, probably because Karen and I had been best mates who were suddenly naked in bed together! We got into "The Missionary Position" but before I entered her  Karen asked me if I would like to look at her vagina to see her hymen, which was still intact in a lady of 22 years. What a privilege it was to then penetrate her. It hurt both of us that first time just a little After all these years of being together we make love several times each week

AVERT says: It is important if you are thinking of having sex, or being intimate that you make a decision that is right for you. Take a look at our Am I Ready for Sex? page for more information.