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First time sex stories

A selection of young people related personal stories written by different people from all around the world and sent to AVERT.

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I am 16 years old nearly 17 and I lost my virginity to my current boyfriend (we had been going out for 4 months) about 1 month ago, he didn't pressure me at all, he had mentioned it but in a sensitive way and he told me that he loved me and wanted to make love with me. So while we were making out on my bed (home alone) I stopped him and got out a condom, that I had bought for when the time felt right. Just remember, sex is about feeling deeply bonded with someone you love and have been with for a while, if you don't want sex don't be pressured, luckily my boyfriend was prepared to wait for me... Read more Read more


I was 16 when I lost my virginity. I always felt pressure to have sex as I knew people around me were. My best friend had recently told me that her and her boyfriend were having sex and this made me feel like I was more of a child then she was.

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My wife and I were both virgins when we met in 1980. We'd been seeing one another for 2 and a half years before we married. Apart from kissing each other we hadn't been intimate in any way.

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I am s3venteen years old and three months away from being eighteen, and I lost my virginity to a guy I love very much. I only lost it last night. We had condoms and used it. Dont have sex until you're sure this person is the absolute most important person in your life.

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i feel bad that my mom trusts me n i went off behind her back n having sex with somebody thats not my bf. Im still n pain right now all im doing is lay in my bed. This is for all the girls that r thinking about have sex dont do it if ur not ready to. Well im tell u this because i regret have sex at 15....

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