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First time sex stories

A selection of young people related personal stories written by different people from all around the world and sent to AVERT.

Abi 1

i was only 13 when i lost my virginity but i was going out with a boy who was 15 and yes we're not together anymore. So i went to his house and we sat on his bed and started making out, he pulled a condom out of his pocket and said, ''only if your ready babe' i replied yes i i thought he was the one i wanted to loose it with. advise is dont have sex at the age of 13 unless your really ready and like the person, but as a result of loosing your virginity you may loose your friends. Also if you do have sex make sure you use protection.

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Maya 1

The first time with my boyfriend was wonderful. We were both virgins and I did not feel any pressure. We both felt like it was ready to happen as we has been going out for 2 years. We, of course, used condoms and the whole thing went about so naturally.

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Emily 1

I did not get the fairytale 'first-time' like a lot of girls claim they did. It was not with my boyfriend, we were not in love. I was 17. He was a 'high-school crush'.... The night i lost my virginity i cried more than anyone outside my family had ever made me cry before.

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Anon 4

I was reading some of these and I noticed only a few were from a guys perspective. My story doesn't end in losing virginity but it does have things in there that might be useful about sex and body image,but all the same. My tips, make sure you're ready, emotionally and physically and always wear protection.

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I was 25 when I lost my virginity and I'm not ashamed of waiting that long.

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