Holly

I have known my current boyfriend since we were in grade school. We started dating when i was 15 & we're still together, I'm 18 now. I love him & I know that he loves me too. My family and I don't believe in sex before marriage. I never planned on having sex before I got married, my boyfriend knew this & was okay with it.

We were together on a Saturday night & planned to go to dinner & a movie. Our plans didn't work out too well so we ended up staying at his house. No one was home so we cuddled and kissed on his bed. One thing led to another and we were having sex. As soon as I realized that it was happening I started to regret it and knew it was a big mistake. Even though I do love him and couldn't think of another person I'd rather lose my virginity to, I wasn't emotionally ready to have sex for the first time. I wish that we would have talked about it before it happened, because maybe now i wouldn't feel so guilty about it. I used to love being around my boyfriend all the time before, I still do, but every time I see him I think of what happened that night. I'm very close to my mom & I always tell her just about everything that's going on in my life, but I can't tell her this because I know she'd be super disappointed in me. This is something that I'll have to live with for the rest of my life & can't take it back. Sex does bring people closer together but sometimes it can also pull people apart.

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Jessica

My name is Jessica and i am 21. My first time was with my husband. We met when we were 12 through his cousin who was my best friend at the time. we dated on and off for almost 10 years and got married 4 months ago. he was my first everything. how it happened was: we were both 17 and for a year i was too afraid to have sex because i was so afraid of becoming pregnant. we had messed around starting at 14. we were at his grandmothers house in the spare bedroom and home alone. he asked me if we could at least try just the tip and i said sure. well i started to like it and we just continued. that night we talked on the phone about it and how much we love each other. it made us closer because it was more making love than just having sex with us. we ended up having sex five times a day ever since. and now we are married and trying to have a baby. we are both in the military and he is over in afghanistan right now. he comes home in 8 weeks. he has been gone for almost 10 months. im so glad i had him as my first instead of just giving in to just anyone. we tried dating other people and kept getting back together. and after getting back together when we were 17 we knew our future was going in the same direction and decided to give ourselves to each other. it feels so much better when you lose it to someone you love and can see yourself with them forever.

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Jake

I have read a lot of these stories and saw that many are from girls. Im a boy who is 17 and i lost my virginity 4 days ago to a girl i really do love. Here is my story...

  I met this girl my freshman year in my english class, and i thought she was so beautiful and out of my grasp. But, we talked all the time because we sat next to eachother and i started to walk her home after school, even if i had to walk back to get a ride. all freshman year we got closer and closer and thats how it was through sophmore year.

  At the beginning of my sophmore year we dated, and i was very shy about doing anthing physical, but we went slow. We dated on and off for one year now, and even though we have broke up sometimes it was not over anything serious. We are best friends who love eachother and four days ago we both had sex for the first time.

  It was a random day off from school, and we have not been together for 1 month and i missed her so much. I went over while her mom was at work and we watched tv, made hot co co, and talked. Everything was normal until i leaned in to kiss her.She said no, and said we were over, but we started to makeout. and we kept kissing and moving faster, we went upstairs and laid in her bed. She asked if i wanted to and i said only if your ready. I put it in her and her face showed a lot of pain, and i could tell when i popped her cherry. But we continued until she said to stop. But after we laid in her bed and talked and it felt so right, and there is no other girl in the world i would rather be with then her.

  Im happy my first time was meaningful, and i want everyone to know that bestfriends truely can lead to more.

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Taylor

Well, my story... I am 19 years old and my fiance is 20. The reason I wanted to share my story, is the fact that I am still a virgin. My fiance, however, is not. We have known eachother for about 5 years, and dated about 4 years ago. We broke up because I had a lot of family issues, and couldn't handle a boyfriend. I was never the dating type anyway. But now he is in the Army. We started talking, and we only dated 3 weeks before he proposed to me.... crazy, I know. But we both told eachother our secret love that we still had for eachother. He is a great guy, truly "on in a million".

He respects the fact that I am a virgin, and that I want to save myself for after marriage (which everyone should do). I am very proud of myself for keeping this precious gift for the man I am going to spend the rest of my life with. But, I am almost temped to give it up early, fearing the honeymoon will be dreadful because I can't handle sex. I know it will hurt, and I know it will change my life, but I really dont think I will ever be ready. I am not ashamed to say that I am really scared to lose my virginity. I am afraid of the pain, little things that may embarrass me, lack of experience, and the overall concept.

I guess the whole point of my story is that I am a lucky woman with a wonderful, heroic man that I can give this precious gift to. Today, sex is just another thing people do to "have fun". When in all reality, it is something that should be shared between you and the man/woman you are married to. Sex is meant for making babies. Yes, there is pleasure in it, but that's not what it is for. My fiance wishes with all his heart he could've saved himself, just as I did. Don't do something you are going to regret! I am very content with my decision, and wouldn't change it for the world. Trust me, you are way better off saving yourself. And also, people will look up to you if you do.

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Stuart

Hey, I am a 15 year old guy from Scotland, in a few days I will be 16 which means I will be legal. I have been going out with my girlfriend (named M for the purpose of this story) for about two months and last night we went to my cousins 16th birthday party, it was awesome and we got pretty drunk. I know you Americans out there will be shocked and appauled that a 15 year old is allowed by his parents to drink but in my country alcohol is not such a big deal, neither is under-age sex.

So anyway, quite late into the night we were left alone in my cousins bedroom. We started kissing like we always do and she was wearing an amazing dress which made her look hotter than ever. I started sliding my hand up her perfect thighs towards her crotch, she was happy to let my rub her through her tights and panties but not to take it any further. She warned me that she did not want to fuck until she was legal, I told her I loved her and that I respect how she feels, I gave up then and we went back to get another drink and mingle.

After we left the party I spent some time in Ms house, we kissed on the couch and we did the usual, I slipped off her dress and she unbuttoned my shirt. I love the feel of her breasts pressing againts my chest and im sure she could feel my erection through her underwear as she was moving her hips a lot. I started rubbing her between the thighs again and then went under her tights, it was when I went under her panties that she moved my hand. M told me that she did not feel she was ready and I told her that I understood. I was slightly embarrased and my hand was wet so i just went back to hugging her and groping her ass. I felt bad for trying to make her do things that we had not talked about before hand.

I am not unhappy to wait for M because I love her. I will definitely wear a condom when the time comes because I really cannot afford to be a father.

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Kelsey

Okay, so my frist time was about a month ago. It was with my boyfriend that I\'ve been with him for about six months. I always thought I would be with a guy for a long time or even married before I had sex. Three months or so after me and my boyfriend starting dating I started to think about have sex with him, but we had hardly even made out. I know, this makes me sound kinda whore-ish. I never really said anything to him about it, but he told me that he didn\'t want to yet and it could ruin us. I didn\'t want to yet, I was only thinking about it. And let me a sure you that I had never thought about it before.

About three months later we were at his house, and we started to make out and he started to finger me, which wasn\'t anything new for us. Ha. But then we got under the cover and we just kept doing that for a while, then he started to take my pants off. I didn\'t stop him and when he did that I pretty much knew where it was leading. Then he took off his jeans, and then he stopped and asked if I wanted to. I said yes, but I told him we had to safe.

While he was getting the condom, all I could think about am I really doing this. I was so nervous, scared, and excited all at time same time. Well, when he came back he ask me again and made sure, and he also said that he wasn\'t doing this just because he is a guy and he really cares about me, and that he would only do it with me. Well then started to, Ha. Since it being both of our first time, we were both nervous. I was really tight, and it was differcult for him to get \"in\". He finally did, and we only did \"it\" for a few minutes, and this we stopped because his dad was getting home soon.

We plan on doing it again, and actually I want to do it again. Basically, if your thinking about having sex then you should know your ready and you love the person. The most important thing is to be safe.

I read these before my first time, and I actually think it\'s kinda helpful.

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Mimi

Well I have been dating my boyfriend for almost a year. After three months of going out he left for the Army. Yes I am an army girlfriend. I am 17 and he just turned 18. We are very much in love and can talk about anything. His parents came to our house to meet mine and even though the tensions are still there he is willing to fight for me. We both have big dreams; he wants to become a cop after he retires from the Army. I want to go to Harvard and become a lawyer. We are both supportive in our career choice. He is finally coming back after 5 months of training in Kentucky and Georgia. I am very excited! This Saturday is my winter ball and he is making it just on time!! We have planned our life out and we are happy knowing that our ends meet and that we will both are going to be on the same page throughout life. I am very lucky I found a responsible smart guy that knows what he wants to do in the future.

We have talked about sex and while we know that we do want each other we know we are too young to make that choice and to deal with the possible consequences. We are going to wait until I am out of college or we get married. I love him and he loves me and waiting for the right time cannot mean anything but I love you and want to be with you for the rest of my life. Besides being my boyfriend he is my best friend that I can always count on. All our teachers agree that we are a perfect match. We are the funny intellectual type that get along with everyone and enjoy having conversations with our teachers. He just has the perfect personality and I cant think of anyone else I would ever want to share my life with.

So ladies, HE IS MINE!!! Go find your own “one in a million”!!  Don’t give yourself up to any jerk that all he wants it to get in your pants so that later on he can dump you. You can even get pregnant!! Little girls 12, 13, 14,15,16,17 you and I are still kids. Enjoy your kid life while it lasts and worry about growing up later. I am happy being the only one at work that is still a virgin, and not pregnant! For all I care I AM GOING TO HARVARD!! Think about your future, I think about mine constantly and I don’t want my dreams to be stopped because of something I could have avoided. I am 17 and still a virgin, and will continue to be for the next 4 yrs! Think about how much one moment of pleasure can destroy!

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Maya

Hey, my name is Maya. I have lived in New York all my life. In grade 8 i met this amazing hot, good looking, understanding guy named Nick (Nicholas). We were introduced to each other by a group of friends. I was only 14. We got really close over a couple of months.. and he also took me out for a movie and dinner on the beach for my 15th birthday.

That was one of the best birthdays of my life.. we wernt exactly going out at that time.. so that night.. he proposed to me for going into a relationship.. as bf and gf.. i was shocked.. my response was i big fat YES !

Our parents were absolutely fine with both of us meeting.. which i really appreciated. On our One Year Anniversary ( a day before my 16th birthday ) he took me to meet his family.. me and his family gelled really well ! Which is one of the best things about this relationship

An hour or so after his WHOLE family leaving for Jersey (family day) we headed up to his room and were watching \"the notebook\".. halfway through the movie.. He started feeling my arms and kissing my neck.. and he went on top of my and we started making out.

Things started to get heated.. he asked me \"baby, are you ready.. ?\" I said yes once again.. he started kissing my neck and once i said \" go down on me.. i want you baby\" he started moving down.. seconds later, he took of my shirt.. i wasnt wearing a bra.. he started softly caressing my boobs.. it felt good.. then he licked them made me let out an amazing moan.

He later went even down.. he pulled down my jeans .. and took off my hello kitty panities.. he started licking my pussy, he came up again.. i took the move.. i took of this shirt and slid of this pants. unbuttoned his boxers. He slowly and carefully put on the condom.. and inserted his erect penis into my vagina.. i was a virgin though. so was he.. i had heard stories about sex hurting for a couple of minutes

But, i felt amazing from the 1st second ! both of us were enjoying so much. I Kept moaning to make him feel stronger which helped.. he kept going faster and faster.. it felt SOOOO good ! This lasted for 2 hours and happened in different positions.. but i was always at the bottom.

We then cuddled and fell asleep. When we woke up later we started kissing and talking about how good it was. A little while later again, he started fingering me and licking my pussy.. right then his sister walked in.. i was so embarrassed. but it didnt matter. she was only 4 anyways

My first time sex was amazing. Me and Nicholas are getting engaged this month. I totally dont regret doing him, and the feeling is mutual.. we love each other

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Deni

I was 14 years old when I met the love of my life. And most people are going to be like oh yeah your 14, you don\'t know what love is, but you could feel it. I had messages from God telling me that he was the one he was everything. I have always had trust issues and I have never been able to get close to people, but once this guy walked into my life. I couldn\'t deal with even imaging my life with out him. He treated me right and he made me feel great. We waited 3 months before we decided to do anything. And when we did at first I thought it was making me fall away from him, but at the end we got closer. He was also my best friend. I loved him so much and still do. But drama went on with the family after they found out. Things went hay wire and it was like they never wanted us to be together. They liked him, but didn\'t. Well then we moved and we were already together for a year. I was 16 and he was 16. The day of my 16 birthday we got in an argument because of everything that my parents were putting us threw and he broke it off with me. It has only been only 2 months since we haven\'t been together and I miss him more each and everyday. I want to be with him again. I really do. I don\'t want anybody else. I am dating other people, I\'m not having sex, but I want my guy back. I lost not only the love of my life. My best friend. I still love him and always have a place in my heart for him, but if he don\'t come back I will know not to keep holding on to something that is not there anymore. He broke his promise to me and that hurt. I hold back what I really feel all the time becauase I hate the cry. I don\'t regret it. but sometimes I wonder if we didn\'t have sex, if maybe the pain, wouldn\'t be as bad.

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Vanessa

Hi my name is Vanessa and I\'m 18 almost 19 years old. My first time was with my current boyfriend of 6 years who is 20 Alex. We met by our parents who are friends since before we were even thought of. My grandmother was fighting Lung Cancer for 5 years, and I guess God thought it was her time to come home. The day she died I was devastated, because she was like my best-friend and grandmother at the same time. Everyone in my family was devastated at that time, even my boyfriend because she was like his 2nd grandmom. He was very supported of me the whole time, we would cry together, talk about her, and all the fun things we did with her etc.

On the 5th month anniversary of her death my boyfriend took me out to help be not think of what day it was, we had a good time together. We came back to his house after and, went up to his room we were talking, cuddling, and making out. It started to get, heated one minute we were making out and the next we were naked with him on top of me, because I was sill a virgin he asked me if I was 110% positive that I wanted to do it. I told him yes. He told me he loves me like a million time while we were making love. After wards we cuddle together and fell asleep.

About 2 weeks later I start feeling sick none stop, he started getting worried so he took me to the doctors were we fond out we I was, pregnant. We were both shock to say the least, but right away we both knew that we wanted to keep the baby. We told our parents, they were angry at first, because they were worried how were we going to have a baby while going to collage. Finically we were very well secured,  but mentally not so much. Overtime both our parents came to accept the facts that we wanted to keep our baby. 2 years later we are both doing good in collage, still together and have a beautiful baby girl named Isabella.

Overall do I regret my first time? No, because we both were positive about what we were doing and we didn\'t rush into it. So my advise is to all you girls and boys out there make sure your first time is with someone you trust, love and you fell safe, secure and comfortable and know that they are in it for the long run. AND REMEMBER HAVE SAFE SEX PLEASE.

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Anon

My first time was with my best guy friend when I was 16. We\'d been friends since freshman year of high school, and during our sophomore year we got really close. He had always been the kind of guy who made out with girls at dances instead of becoming good friends with them. But our personalities  clicked right away. We texted each other almost everyday and hung out over the weekends. When I noticed he had stopped hooking up with girls he told me he wasn\'t doing it anymore because he knew I didn\'t approve of the girls he usually hooked up with. I remember him talking about this one girl who basically asked him flat out to hook up with her, and he said no. When I asked him why (I knew he was into this girl), he said \"Because I know you don\'t like her. And I care about you way more than I care about her.\" He was always a different guy around me. I tried to make him show everyone, not just me, how great of a guy he was, but he always had trouble. We\'d had conversations in the past about how we both knew we were perfect for each other, and that being together would be \"effortless\", but something we were both feeling held us back, and kept us just in the best friend zone. Neither of us could pinpoint it.

He would always list off guys I should try to get with. He would ask me why I didn\'t talk about the guys I liked. I\'d had a long history of getting really strong feelings for guys, and being crushed in the process. I was at a point where I had somewhat given up. I didn\'t want to put any more energy into getting a guy to like me, just to be let down a couple weeks later. He would always say, \"That\'s no good. You should keep trying. You\'d be an amazing girlfriend.\" I never liked it when he said that. It made me ask in my mind \"Then why aren\'t we together?\" I was confused about my feelings for him, and speculated whether or not he had feelings for me. I could never figure it out.

We were hanging out at his house one day during junior year. It started out like any other time we hung out. We played air hockey, listened to music, watched those stupid overly sexual teen movies that we would laugh at together. It was totally normal. But I remember so clearly the point where it changed. I had put on one of my favorite songs. It was a slow song. He walked over to where I was and said let\'s dance. At first it started out as a joke. We tried to do fancy spins and dips, and were laughing the whole time. Then he put my arms around his neck and we slow danced. It wasn\'t awkward. We had hugged and held hands many times before, but just as friendly gestures. We swayed back and forth for a while, and then all of a sudden I heard him singing along with the song. I\'d heard him sing before, but only when he was joking around and screaming the words while playing the piano. This was different. He sang very quietly, and it sounded really good. I pulled back to look at his face, since I was surprised. He smiled at me, and then I just kissed him. I don\'t know why, I just had the sudden urge to kiss him. I didn\'t expect him to, but he kissed me back. It lasted for about 10 seconds, and then we both pulled back and just looked at each other for a little bit. I felt like I was in a movie, but it was real. Without even thinking we moved into the guest bedroom.

I remember thinking while we were kissing again that all the confusion I had was totally out the window. I wanted all of him for myself. Not necessarily in a sexual way, just in general. We both took our shirts off and I loved just feeling the weight of him against me, with our bare skin touching. We were getting into it, just feeling each others bodies and realizing how much we both had been avoiding. I remember the point where he was on top of me, him in his boxers, and me in my bra and underwear. He looked me in the eye and said \"I want to be with you\". I\'m such a hopeless romantic and I almost started crying right there. But that stopped when he started kissing me again and moved his hand down. He started to feel me through my underwear, and I started getting really excited. He stopped after a couple minutes and that\'s when I knew things had gotten to a different level. He whispered \"Do you want to?\". I knew immediately what he was asking and I remember laughing a little and saying \"You have no idea\". So he took off my panties and pushed inside me. The pain was very sudden, and it made the air whoosh out of my mouth. He asked me if I wanted him to stop but I told him to keep going, since I\'d heard that the pain went away after a couple minutes. Which it did. After about 3 minutes of wincing and him going very gently, it started to feel really good. He noticed that it wasn\'t hurting me anymore and started to get more into it. We moved together for a while, and I remember both of us making sounds. I knew I was reaching my climax and I started moaning loudly. Then he came inside me, which I have to admit was an amazing feeling. He pulled out and laid down next to me. We were both breathing heavily. After a while of just laying there, trying to digest what we\'d just done, he turned his head and asked \"How\'d I do?\". I replied \"Eh...you were okay\". We both laughed.

Even though my first time in all was an amazing experience, I made the huge mistake of not using a condom. No, I did not get pregnant or get any sort of STD, but I was just extremely lucky. I started freaking out a couple days after it happened because I was scared I\'d miss my period. That fear effected my relationship with him because I found myself avoiding him. We are still good friends, but I wish I had used a condom, because it would have saved me a lot of stress.

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A guy...

So, I know that i probably the only guy that is posting one of these, but my first time was special, and i noticed there were no stories from guys.

and to save time i am throwing punctuation and spelling out the window.

so, it is december as im writing this, and i lost my virginity in july. i am almost 16 and my girlfriend turned 17 in aug. so i was 15 and she was 16 when it happened.

i knew her for seven yrs before we started dating, and we had been great friends. we had talked about sex, but nevr really \"gotten around to it.\" we decided to buy some condoms, just in case we ever wanted to have sex. i am truely in love with this girl, and we have been together for 7 months, it being 2 months when we had sex. but it felt like i was dating her for so much longer, because i had known her for such a long time.  

so one night we were at the fair, and when we went to go park, she parked far away from all of the other cars, in a dark corner like place. that was my first clue. but, i didnt want to rush. so we were walking around the fair, we got some food, rode some rides and just had a great time. we were on this one ride, and we stopped at the top. and she started to kiss me. right as we really got into it, the ride started to move again, which was no big deal b/c we werent planning on doing anything else up there anyway. so we kept walking around, then we decided to go back to her car. we got in, and started to make out. there were some people walking by, but it was dark, and i said we can stop if she wanted to. but all she said was she wasent sure. so we sat for a while, and i told her again that it was fine if we wanted to just go home or even back into the fair. but she started to get out and i asked where she was going. and she said to sit in the back.

so i got out, and sat in the back with her, and she moved her seat foward alot (i guess for more room) and we started kissing. she took her pants off. and i did too. we put the condom on and she got on top of me and.... lol,it was nice for me, and i kept asking her is she was okay. so it got pretty intense, but the she said it hurt too much so we stopped. and i was fine with that.

so at first it kinda shocked her that we were both not virgins anymore, and we sat and talked. we agreed we were fine with it, and if we wanted to do it again we would.


since then, our \"sex life\" has been great.

my point is, that even though the first time may be weird, remember, its like that for the other person too. and we realized that it only  hurt alot for her b/c ow the small car we were in. so girls. dont be discouraged, dont be scared. but dont feel like you have to do it. i could still be waiting and i would be fine with that because i love her.

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Sarah

Sex to me kept changing and there were times where I disliked being a virgin and wanted to experience it being young. Anyways I lost my virginity last night to a guy at my house which im not dating. Iv\'e heard of lots of different girls and their experiences during sex where for some it hurt and others it didnt. For me, it hurt quite a bit for the first part of it, and i thought we wouldnt end up having sex because of it. However we took it pretty slow and eased into it eventually. Some people say sex is feels amazing, but how I experienced was a little uncomfortable and it was not completely right doing it with a guy I am not dating. I stayed on the bottom the whole time, as top hurt more for me, and we went for 2 hours. I know that seems long, but at the time it went very quickly. It was nice however, cos we listened to music the whole time, which gave a more relaxed atmosphere than dead silence. Anyways I know the sex was better for the guy than me, and I suggest you have it with someone who actually wants to be with you, cos it is alot nicer and they will appriciate you more. I guess I only had sex just to experience it and I had the oppurtunity, even though it was with someone I didnt know very well and he wasn\'t a virgin. Please just make sure when your about to have sex, that the guy actually puts the condom on and doesnt lie about doing so, to avoid pregnancy and STI\'s. You dont nessasarily have to love your partner, but I suggest that you feel comfortable with the person your with and comfortable with yourself!

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Alisha

I started going out with a guy from the call center i worked in from Oct. 2005, i was 17 then. n v r still together.

At first our relationship was just talking... no physical contact at all... thn in mid 2006 v started holding hands... n thn he started touching n caressing my boobs n softly speak sexy stuff in my ears... the touching was only done by him, not me... thn in 2007 v kissed for the first time... n v wud go to far mountanious areas n park the car n he would come above me n v used to kiss n i would almost \'always\' feel his boner but do nothing as i was too shy... v wud kiss n thn he wud pull my tee shirt n remove my bra, i wud remove hir tee n v wud hug each other basking in glory of feeling each others skin, then he wud softly caress my boobs, then suck on my nipples which would make me moan n then he wud lick his way down to my belly button n then come back up n v would kiss more. he did never once push his boner, to give me ne sort idea... n i loved him even more for tht.

thn in mid 2007 v were on our way to a fair n during the drive his hands always roam my body. but it just used to b the upper body, this time he was rubbing his hands on my thighs n it was really arousing, my legs automatically spread open n he moved his hand toward my pussy, n started rubbing my clitoris. tht got me really hot n i told him i wanted him, so  v skipped the fair n went to our usuall area. n he came above me n started kissing me.. i kept telling him i wanted him n tried to remove his pants but he wud move my hands away n kiss me harder n told me v wont jump to sex now... he wanted out 1st time to b special n not in a car. n he suggested dry sex. dry sex is like doing the actions of sex without removing the clothes. so basically he never actually entered me but grinded his covered boner against my covered clitoris. which had us both moaning. he had his 1st orgasm n v cudnt continue as his pants were spoilt. then later v continued with dry sex whnever v got the chance with him wearing a condom so his clothes wudnt get dirty.

thn in 2008 he planned out a surprise for me for my 20th birthday. before tht v went in to a hypermarket to do some shopping... n we were in the condom aisle when i noticed flavoured condoms n i had no idea wht they r for... i told him why in the world do they make flavoured condoms??? n he was like \'u dont know??\' n i was like no... so he told me wht they were for n tht had me blushing red. n i whispered him to buy it. n he was like r u sure?? n i smiled n moved ahead. thn he took me to a resort where he had booked a room for us... first v went in the room n there was a gift at the bed i looked at him n he smiled... the gift was a swimming costume... he asked me to wear it n thn v went out for swimming... v back after like an hour n as soon as v entered our room n he closed the door i kissed him n told him this was my best birthday...

he took me towards the bed, n when v reached it i slowly pushed him n made him sit thn i went to the table where v had kept the bag n took the flavoured n the other condoms from it n came back to bed.. i kneeled near the bed betweent his legs n slowly pushed him back so he wud lie down n rolled the condon on his boner n started sucking... at first my teeth were hurting him but thn i got hold of how to do it n he was enjoying it n whn he was abt to orgasm he asked me to stop n told tht he wanted to take care of me too. thn he pulled me up on the bed n started kissing me. he removed my bikini top n massaged my boobs, n sucked my nipples hungrily... it all aroused me to no extent... then he got on me n started grinding against my bikini bottoms covered pussy n i told him i wanted him... n he was like he is giving himself to me. n i was like i really wanted him n i put my hands on the panty n pushed it down a little... he asked if i was sure... i said yes... n he asked again really... n again i said yes... thn ke kissed me hardly on the lips n thn kissed my neck thn played with my boobs for a little while thn licked his way to the panty n thn as his hands pulled them down he kisses kept moving down. he removed the bikini bottoms n opened my legs wide n first kissed my clit... thn with his tongue he did wonders which had me moaning n yelling for more n i had my orgasm then... then he came above n kissed me n waited for me to relax again. thn asked me if i was ready n i said yes... he then entered his boner in my vagina n it pained for like 2 min. thn it was complete pleasure n he started moving in n out of me... first slowly n then gently n thn  whn i asked him to he started being faster n thn he had his orgasm....

thn he layed down nxt to me n v kept kissing each other n then he got a boner again n he said this time he wants me to be on top, so with a new condom on i mounted him n v made love for the second time again...

that was very special day of my life n i will treasure it always... it was a perfect way to start my 20th year.

n now am 21 soon to b 22 n v continue to b together n r commited for life (going to marry him soon :).

what i wud like to tell every1 is tht dont have sex... make love! n u can only make love with some1 whom u love n trust n that person returns the feelings... else its sex... plain meaningless sex... avoid it... make love... use protection... n be happy :)

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Kat

My interest in sex began when I was very young. As far back as I can remember, I was always intrigued with the human body (both male and female.) I made my Barbies have what I thought was sex. I had little affairs with the boys on my block, kissing, touching, looking. It was a private fascination though. Sex was never discussed in my family. My parents gave me a book, \"Now That You\'re 12,\" I think it was called. It was an abstinence-only approach to sex. There was nothing about STDs, pregnancy, HIV/AIDS, and nothing to prepare me for the emotional and physical aspects regarding losing my virginity and having sex. What I know about sex, I have learned all on my own, mainly from friends, my ob-gyn, and the Internet.

When I lost my virginity I was 16 years old. It was a meaningless experience, I just didn\'t want to be a virgin anymore. My best friend and I called our virginity the \"hot potato,\" something that we needed to get rid of. Looking back, I of course wish I had waited until I was truly ready and in a stable relationship. My first love was the first defining sexual relationship of my life, when I was 18.

During a reckless period in my life, I slept around a lot. I was on birth control and didn\'t think I needed to use condoms because of that. This is when I wish that I had better education in my early years. I contracted two STDs during this time period, both of which were symptomless and when I found out I was devastated. I was given medicine, got healthy again, and learned my lesson. After that experience, I am an advocate of comprehensive sexual education in schools, starting in elementary school.

When I got into my 20s, I began to realize an attraction towards women. I consider myself straight, but I am totally into all types of sex. I am constantly reading about sex, talking about it, learning about it, and most importantly, having safe-sex! I am in a monogamous relationship with someone who is just as interested in sex as I am, I feel I have met my sexual soul mate :)

I believe sex is a subject that should NOT be swept under the rug. We need to talk about sex: in our schools, our jobs, our communities. While it is best to wait to have sex until you are in a committed relationship, that is not the reality of our world. Sex education needs to start in elementary school, parents should have conversations with their children as early as possible, and there needs to be a huge emphasis on STD/HIV/AIDS prevention. I believe contraceptive methods (birth control, condoms) should be freely and readily available.

People have been having sex since the beginning of time, and it\'s been a very hush-hush subject since then. Times are changing, and our conversations about sex need to change too!

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